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Thursday, August 31, 2006
It's Your Faith: Wear It

I agree with Stacy Harp: Former "Apprentice" contestant Tarek Saab's new Lionheart apparel line is awesome.


10:35 PM  |

Wednesday, August 30, 2006

Please Pray for Father Mike

UPDATE, 8/31: Today's Darien Times has an interview with Father Mike and related stories.

The Rev. Michael Madden, who hired a private investigator when the Diocese of Bridgeport did not take action to investigate the Rev. Michael Jude Fay — that's the pastor whom the diocese now admits may have stolen as much as $1.4 million — has announced that he is leaving the priesthood:

Madden went to the new pastor of the church, the Rev. Frank McGrath, at about 1:15 p.m. yesterday and told him he was leaving the parish and the priesthood immediately.

"He was already packed, and we had a good, long talk," McGrath said in a telephone interview last night.

Madden was upset and disappointed with the diocese's handling of the Fay incident, McGrath said.

"It's the culmination of several disappointments in his 11 years as a priest," McGrath said.

McGrath said he offered Madden the opportunity to explain his sudden departure in the weekly parish bulletin, but Madden declined, saying he had already made a statement to the Darien Times that would be read by parishioners. Madden served as the church's parochial vicar.

"I walked him to his car and wished him well," McGrath said. "I said, 'You are always welcome back.' We shook hands, and he drove off.
I met Father Mike in the fall of 2005, when he took the train to Grand Central Terminal to have lunch with me in midtown Manhattan. He told me about the nonprofit he started, FaithFront, which has since invited me to speak at a seminar next spring. FaithFront's mission, as stated on its Web site, is to educate and motivate individuals "to help imbue fundamental Christian values into our secularized society – to take their convictions from the pews to the marketplace — and so influence the course of American society and culture."

The site goes on:
Current norms in the public square have been largely successful in pressuring Christians to leave their faith behind when they walk out their front door, which makes this the right time for the FaithFront initiative.

There is a definite place for gospel values in the public discourse and in the decision-making that leads to action in politics, business, and leisure. People of faith need to understand that, in this land of diversity, theirs is as legitimate - and, we would add, necessary - a voice as anyone else’s and one that is entitled to be heard. ...

Those whose lives are guided by gospel values need to know they are not alone. There are many people of different faiths concerned about the same things they are.

They also need to know what is being done to address those concerns, and FaithFront draws upon the real-life experiences of individuals in business, politics, and culture to inform them. These individuals are people of faith who are not leading double lives, but who are successfully assimilating gospel values into their life’s work with no retreats and no apologies. ...

The challenge facing many Christians today is to muster the courage to take what is of primary importance in their lives and bring it out into the world – to leave the quiet of the catacombs for the clamor of the public arena because that is what Christ is asking us to do.
As a former editorial writer for the Waterbury Republican-American who had interned at the National Journalism Center, Father Mike knew something about public discourse and the need for the voices of those with gospel values (which, as he notes in FaithFront's mission statement, are not necessarily limited to Christians*) to be heard. He started FaithFront because he had a vision of helping people live out their faith without fear. It is heartbreaking to see that his own courage to do the right thing should lead him to such pain and disappointment.

Please pray for Father Mike. I can't imagine what he's going through right now. (I'm still referring to him as Father Mike, because, to my knowledge, he has yet to be officially laicized.)

Among Father Mike's homilies (in the "Culture of Faith" section of FaithFront's online archive is an observation on the Resurrectiion that reflects the source of Father Mike's courage — and gives a hint of the great encouragement he gave to his parishioners and those around him:
It says a lot about humanity that when God came and invited us to share his life, we said no. But it says even more about the Lord that he wouldn’t take no for an answer. On that first Easter morning, the rock that separated us from God was rolled away, and from the darkness of a tomb, the Risen Christ extended a hand of friendship once again.

Jesus went to a lot of trouble to save us, yet the only thing he asks from us is to let him into our lives, let him walk with us as we make our way through this world—a world that can be no less cruel to us than it was to him.

Anyone who has never had a difficult day; anyone who has never faced a trial of one kind or another; anyone who has never experienced loss or loneliness, deep hurt or disappointment—in short, anyone who has somehow managed to avoid the harsh realities of life can go ahead and say no to Christ.

For the rest of us, though, it’s a good time to make sure our hand is firmly in the Lord’s, not just on Easter and Christmas, but every day, because he is the only living person who knows his way back from the dead.

And we should always be strengthened in the knowledge that the hand leading us to eternity has a nail hole through it.


Note to commenters: Please heed these words of wisdom from Mark Shea: "And please, no soul diagnostics in the combox. This is a man who needs prayer and encouragement to continue in his vocation, not armchair psychoanalysis and cheap declarations about the state of his soul from two-bit cyber-popes."

Photo of the Rev. Michael Madden taken from faithfront.org.

*C.S. Lewis wrote along the same lines in The Abolition of Man about values that are shared by all major faiths.


11:21 AM  |

Tuesday, August 29, 2006

Breast Cancer that No Mammogram Will Detect


This was forwarded to me with a note saying it was important. I agree. It takes six minutes to watch and could save your life or that of someone you love. (Note: I don't believe the phone lines mentioned in the segment are still open, but there is a Web site with more information on inflammatory breast cancer.)


10:37 PM  |

Prayer Request

Joseph Shipman, a longtime commenter to this blog, writes that his wife needs your prayers:

Lisa is in St. Peter's Hospital for tests -- she is in her 20th week, and earlier test results showed a possibility of pre-eclampsia. At the moment, both she and the baby are fine, but we need prayers that all will continue to be well.

If you could post a prayer request on your blog I am sure it would help.
UPDATE, 9/1/06: Sad news from Joseph:
The baby was stillborn very early this morning. We named her Francesca Marie. Lisa is still in the Intensive Care Unit at St. Peter's, but is getting better. Please keep us in your prayers.

Pre-eclampsia is a scary disease -- this spiraled out of control within 3 days even though she was in the hospital under constant observation. It is fortunate that she had a regular prenatal checkup on Monday and the doctor recognized the suspicious pattern in the test results even though she was not feeling particularly sick.

I would like to recommend the following charity, which was there for us today:

http://www.nowilaymedowntosleep.org/
Please pray for Lisa, Joseph, and the rest of their family.


11:23 AM  |

Monday, August 28, 2006

Planned Parenthood's Idea of Informed 'Choice'

Planned Parenthood is often accused of attempting to sway clients with positive pregnancy tests to choose abortions, a charge the organization denies. In light of that, I found a Planned Parenthood representative's comments to a reporter doing a story on a pregnancy resource center, a parenting-class center, and a Planned Parenthood chapter, to be very telling.

Stephanie Veale writes in the Utica Observer article "Values and Consequences":

Planned Parenthood counselors facilitate the decision-making process by making sure patients know how a choice will affect them. If a young teenager wants to keep her baby, a counselor might ask questions like, "How will this fit in with school?" and "Who will take care of the baby every day?" Schenectady-based counseling manager Sue Wendelgass said.

"The goal is not to alter their decision, but to get them to look at it in the context of their lives," Wendelgass said. Sometimes a woman hasn't thought her decision through all the way, and counseling helps her do that, she said.
Do you think that if the teenager answered that having her baby would indeed make it hard for her to stay in school, or that she would have trouble getting child care, Planned Parenthood's Wendelgass would bend over backwards to connect her with social services? Would she do everything legitimately within her power to make keeping the baby as attractive a choice as possible, as do pregnancy resource centers such as A Bridge to Life?

Nuh-uh. It's all about getting teens to look at at their unborn babies — I mean, as Planned Parenthood puts it, "pregnancy tissue" — within "the context of their lives." Meaning the teens' lives — because, kids, being pregnant is All About YOU.

When a teenager is encouraged to think of a human being inside her body as being subject only to her own desires, what is to prevent the teenager from persisting in such narcissism if and when she ever brings such a child into the world? After all, if the child only exists because it fits conveniently into her life, why should she bother to keep it alive when it becomes inconvenient? To an abortion supporter, the answer can't be because the child, once born, has unique human qualities; there is nothing substantial in the born person's humanity that did not exist in it when it was unborn.


9:41 PM  |

Feignin' Abel



Here's a classic clip of the New York City media wreaking (literally) sweet revenge upon veteran hoaxer Alan Abel. From the clip's accompanying description on YouTube:
In 1972, Howard Hughes appeared at the St. Regis Hotel in NYC, wrapped in bandages, claiming that he was going to be frozen through cryogenics and return when the stock market peaked. A press conference was held and a large group of reporters were in attendance. After questioning, Hughes was hurriedly wheeled out through the lobby and his wheelchair got stuck in the revolving door. A second press conference took place several days later, during which it was revealed that media hoxer Alan Abel was actually the man underneath the bandages. In retaliation, the media decided to play their own joke on Abel.
For more information on Alan Abel and his hoaxing career, visit www.alanabel.com.
I took part in one of Abel's minor hoaxes when I was in college. For five dollars an hour, I spent a couple of lunchtimes as an accomplice to the "Robin Hood magician," a young man whose gimmick was that he would perform magic tricks for strangers on New York City streets in which he would actually give them the five dollar bill that he would find in their ear, elbow, and so on. Abel wasn't present at the magician's performances, but gave him advice.

I remember Abel as being very smart, gracious, and funny; wish I'd stayed in touch with him. You can see from this and other clips of him on YouTube that he's a genius.

12:30 AM  |

Sunday, August 27, 2006

Happy Lord's Day! New post to come late tonight.


12:01 AM  |

Saturday, August 26, 2006

The Shawn Patrol

A little Saturday-morning treat for you:



Dick Shawn does his marvelous star turn as Lorenzo St. DuBois in "The Producers" (1968). I refuse to see the Broadway version because Mel Brooks cut this song out (he didn't write it).

I used to perform the song at an open mic in Greenwich Village, wearing a homemade Campbell's soup-can necklace just like Shawn's. I would wear a minidress with tights and fishnets over the tights, and I would have silk flowers poking out of the fishnets at odd angles. At the appropriate moment of the song, I would toss the flowers out to the audience. It was very hard to do that and play guitar at the same time.

(There's more on my dissipated years, and my recovery from them, in my upcoming book — which some wit at Amazon has appropriately coupled, in a "buy two/get discount" offer, with Compendium of the Catechism of the Catholic Church.)


1:31 AM  |

Friday, August 25, 2006

Dark Victory

"We at Planned Parenthood consider this day a victorious day for women's health," said Jeralyn Wendelberger of Planned Parenthood after the FDA approved the abortion-causing Plan B*, or morning-after pill.

A table on Planned Parenthood's own Web site shows that it takes as many as 40 ordinary oral contraceptive pills — all of which require a prescription — to equal the hormones in Plan B, which is now available to women as young as 18 without a prescription.

Some "victory for women's health."

So, riddle me this: Why do oral contraceptives still require a prescription, seeing as they're so safe that you can take 40 times the prescribed amount anytime you want?

*Plan B's prescribing information says it may act by inhibiting implantation of an embryo, which kills the new human life.


12:57 AM  |

Thursday, August 24, 2006

Hint: It's Not About the Long Island Expressway

Today I began reading People of the Lie, the first book I've ever attempted by M. Scott Peck. I'm in Chapter Two and can tell that it's highly profound. If you've read the book, what do you think of it and its conclusions?


12:12 AM  |

Wednesday, August 23, 2006

Quote of the Day

"Also, there is a strange dichotomy in this whole position about our courts ruling that abortion is not the taking of a human life. In California, sometime ago, a man beat a woman so savagely that her unborn child was born dead with a fractured skull, and the California State Legislature unanimously passed a law that was signed by the then-Democratic Governor -- signed a law that said that any man who so abuses a pregnant woman that he causes the death of her unborn child shall be charged with murder. Now, isn't it strange that that same woman could have taken the life of her unborn child, and it was abortion and not murder, but if somebody else does it, that's murder?"

President Ronald Reagan, debating former Vice President Walter Mondale in Louisville, Ky., October 7, 1984


9:52 AM  |

Monday, August 21, 2006

Pro-Choice ... Except When the Choice Has a Heartbeat

Despite a headline seemingly intended to sound foreboding, "Anti-Abortion Activists Eye Inner Cities" is remarkably balanced as Associated Press stories go, giving an unusually accurate depiction of what goes on in crisis pregnancy centers.

Of course, it has the requisite quote from a Planned Parenthood mouthpiece:

"These predatory fanatics don't lift a finger to help the children who are born unwanted and unplanned," said Jatrice Martel Gaiter, head of the Washington-area Planned Parenthood chapter.

"In these centers of deception, they leave young parents at best with a box of Pampers and a prayer," she said. "They leave people even more vulnerable than when they walked through the door, without any information about how to avoid a future unintended pregnancy."
The story goes on to describe what the crisis pregnancy centers actually do for mothers who choose life for their children — which is quite a bit more than just what Gaiter would have one believe. But what does the Washington, D.C.-area Planned Parenthood do for them?

Here, taken directly from Planned Parenthood of Metropolitan Washington's Web site, is a detailed list of Planned Parenthood's free products and services for new mothers and their babies:








































12:17 AM  |

Saturday, August 19, 2006

'The Curse of Free Love' ...

... is a brilliant and heartbreaking article by Robert Hughes in today's Sunday (London) Times (very graphic language).


11:55 PM  |

Love that Bobby

Some Bobby Darin for your Saturday, via YouTube:



Darin sings "Have Mercy Baby" with former Drifters great Clyde McPhatter.



This is a real treat, despite the blurry quality — Darin sings "Higher and Higher" live during his final TV special, a few short months before his death. He was so ill at the time that he had to go backstage between songs to receive oxygen.


12:01 AM  |

Friday, August 18, 2006

Wishing vs. Hoping

A friend who read an advance copy of my book on chastity for marriage-minded single women commented to me that she was glad I mentioned the prospect that the reader might never get married.

She was being generous. The book mentions the possibility of a lifetime as a chaste single woman only in passing. At the time that I wrote the book, I didn't very well know how to acknowledge it without making it sound like a death sentence.

It wasn't until reporter Nadine O'Regan of the Irish Times asked me point-blank how it felt to realize that I might never meet the right one, that I began to articulate what had been at the back of my mind for a while.

""Experience has shown me that I'm not getting more unhappy. I'm getting happier," I said. "So, as depressing as it may be to think of another five years, or a lifetime, of not being married, the depression is only in me in the fear. Actually living out a chaste lifestyle indefinitely is not sad. I'm accomplishing so much with my life that I didn't think I'd be able to accomplish."

G.K. Chesterton writes that, according to the "Penny Catechism" he read before entering the Church, "The two sins against Hope are presumption and despair."

We don't usually think of hope as something that can be sinned against. But it is a virtue, and presumption and despair are its corresponding vices. More than that, it is, along with faith and charity, one of the three theological virtues, meaning that it is directed towards God.

A person living chastely while wishing to be married is living in hope. However, I'm realizing more and more that, while there is nothing wrong with longing for marriage — God expects us, after all, to look to Him to fulfill our desires — the kind of hope in which such a person abides is ideally not centered upon wedding vows.

Here again I run up against the difficulties of the language we use when describing the single life. I don't say that one desiring marriage should merely "stop looking," as advice columnists would have it, nor that one should "cultivate other interests" or "just be the best person you can be."

What I have in mind is something that's rarely discussed in our consumer culture, which is about entitlement, as in the mantra that Lucinda Williams wrote in her catchy song "Passionate Kisses": "Shouldn't I have this, shouldn't I have this, shouldn't I have all of this ... Give me what I deserve, 'cause it's my right."

To a child of the culture of entitlement, the following may be akin to telling a sugar-loving tot, "Perhaps your mission in life is not to eat ice cream for breakfast, lunch, and dinner." But it's striking me more and more, especially as I spend time with religious faithful and people who do charitable work that perhaps what I think are the most important things for me to accomplish in life are not necessarily those that God considers most important.

Everything we do here on Earth counts, for our salvation and that of others. There are certain things that we can do here that are unique to this life, and we should cherish the blessings of earthly existence while we can. But — what seems like an eternity for us is less than the blink of an eye in Heaven. Moreover, there are no marriages in Heaven. Neither are there parent-child relationships in Heaven as there are here. When we are greeted by our "children" in Heaven, it will be our spiritual children — those whom we have helped come to the faith — which, for a single person, could well exceed the number of children of a married one. So, while missing out on marriage in this life may feel like a tragedy, it won't affect one's future happiness.

The hope in which I strive to live, then, is that Jesus, through Mary, will enable the graces He has given me through the gift of conversion to come to full flower. This is the "hope [that] maketh not ashamed," as Paul writes in Romans 5, "because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us."

That love from God is expressed, as Paul says, through the Holy Spirit, which the Apostle writes in 2 Corinthians is what conforms the faithful to Jesus' image: "But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord."

Make no mistake about it, I want to be married and experience the love and companionship of a husband on every level — physical, emotional, and spiritual. And, sure, I think about it a lot. But when I think about the short time we have on Earth — and time flies when you're over 35 — I feel the need to focus on discerning God's will for my life from day to day. It's a will that requires me to become more loving to everyone — as opposed to becoming more attractive to that special someone out there.

I have no idea how I can accomplish such a directive. Certainly, I can't do it from my own efforts; it's obvious from my blog that I stumble at it daily. But I look at the lives of saints like Maximilian Kolbe and I have to hope and trust that Jesus, through Mary, will grant me the grace to, as St. Maximilian put it, love without limits.


1:09 AM  |

Thursday, August 17, 2006

Quote of the Day

"Yes sir. To Mr. Jerry Nutt, I just hope this brings some kind of peace to your family. I wish I could bring them back, but I can't. I hope my death brings peace; don't hang on to the hate. Momma, stay strong. Lord forgive me for my sins because here I come. Let's go, Warden."

Jermaine Herron, just before he was executed on May 17, quoted in a must-read post by the Raving Atheist, "Last Words."


11:28 PM  |

Babe in Arms

From my friend Julia come these photos from earlier this year of me with her beautiful baby boy — my godson Ronan:


That's Julia on the left, and godfather Sal in the background, at Ronan's baptism in February. A moment before, the priest expressed reservations about getting holy water on my sweater, but I urged him on — I was too inexperienced with holding a baby to think I could pull up my sleeve.



And here Ronan and I are in April — with Ronan eager to grab my Miraculous Medal. He is as adorable as they come.


9:34 PM  |

Suspect Admits Killing JonBenet Ramsey

This is a remarkable end to a tragic mystery.

For those who can remember the media frenzy after JonBenet's murder, what do you think of this in light of all the suspicion that had focused upon the girl's parents? What does it say about the initial police investigation?

UPDATE: Apparently it's not the end to the mystery after all.


8:46 AM  |

Wednesday, August 16, 2006

Stan Can


Via YouTube, here's one of Stan Freberg's classic commercials — a Chun King one circa 1964 that he created and in which he stars (he's the one with glasses). It includes a take-off on the Clairol slogan "Only Her Hairdresser Knows for Sure." Also, note the unusual device of a commercial within a commercial — a meta-commercial, as it were.


8:12 PM  |

Tuesday, August 15, 2006

Thought for the Diem

One of the fun things about attending a Tridentine Mass is learning where all those highfalutin'-sounding Catholic blog names come from.


11:27 PM  |

Joyful Mystery

Reader Leif writes:

While commenting on [Wayne Fontana & The Mindbenders'] "The Game of Love" on your blog and playing around with the lyric therein, "it happened long ago in the garden of Eden," I was surfing around on the topic and came across a set of photos of religious plays performed in England in the 1950s.

I thought you'd appreciate this one ...

[Click on photo for a much larger image]
and ...


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... something's present in those images -- more than just a little middle school play.


9:25 PM  |

Feting Freberg

My friend Roy Currlin sends this touching clip — fast-forward to 56 minutes in, and stay tuned at the end for Keith Olbermann's tribute.


9:20 PM  |

Quote and Meta-Quote of the Day

"From [Fr. John Hardon's] bio of St. Maximilian [Kolbe], a quote from the holy man: 'I asked the Mother of God what was to become of me. Then she came to me holding two crowns, one white, the other red. She asked if I was willing to accept either of these crowns. The white one meant that I should persevere in purity, and the red that I should become a martyr. I said that I would accept them both.' That is unspeakably impressive isn't it? To ask for both? I'd probably ask if there were any tinfoil crowns available."

— TS, writing in his blog Video meliora, proboque; Deteriora sequor


12:08 PM  |

Kofi and Cigarettes

"One good thing about [the UN building] is that you're allowed to smoke - exceptional in tobacco-free Manhattan. But even this is for a bad reason: not because of any healthy indulgence of sin, but because of an inability to impose rules. In a world where everyone is equal, no one is allowed to exert any authority. It's like Hitler's bunker at the end of the Second World War - people knew the obsessive anti-smoking Führer was dead and that all authority had collapsed because everyone was lighting up."

— From "The UN has its place, but does it merit a building?" by Harry Mount, in today's Telegraph. Harry's a friend, and his article's brilliant; read the whole thing.

More posts coming later today.


2:19 AM  |

Monday, August 14, 2006

Too busy to post this morning, save for this great YouTube clip I found of Mother Teresa speaking at a graduation ceremony:



Anyone know where or when the speech was made?

Have a blessed Maximilian Kolbe feast day. Regular posting will resume late tonight.


12:23 AM  |

Sunday, August 13, 2006

Albion My Way

Check out my friend Michael Lynch's excellent British Invasion podcast, "Ready Steady A Go Go." Thanks to him, I can't get the Roulettes' "I Can't Stop" (at the end of his first podcast) out of my head.


12:11 AM  |

Ill. Thrill

R.A.G.E. Media presents a "pro-choice campaign ad" for a candidate from Illinois.

When you're done, watch my all-time favorite TV commercial to see what the opposing candidate's up to these days. (Yes, I like it even better than Burt Bacharach's turn for Geico.)


12:01 AM  |

Saturday, August 12, 2006

Because She's the Mommy, That's Why

Feministe's Lauren presents an arresting broadside against those of her ideological compatriots who make cheap shots against parents:

I admit that I find a lot of the discussions of parenting in the feminist blogosphere — which only seem to pop up when a prominent woman has, oh, anything to say about her kids in print — sexist and condescending. Mythago has this bit covered well in the comments at Pandagon, language about how women “pop out” or “sh-t out” kids, people who think children are more of an economic dearth than a possible pleasure, and the refusal to recognize that “kid-friendly” isn’t the opposite of “adults-only.”
All right, she loses me on that last point. But she adds:
And, fellow feminists, I f-cking hate the term “breeders.”
She ends the post with a forceful request:
I call a truce. No more mommy drive-bys. In the absence of real danger inflicted on our children, we’re doing what we can to make our sometimes-charming, sometimes-irritating little people into productive and engaged big people and don’t deserve the extra shame and misogyny heaped on us by others who don’t have any interest in our lifestyles anyway. To each their own. How we raise our children — and how we feel about it — is always ripe for discussion, but I won’t pretend this mommy knows best. [Read the whole post for full context, including links omitted here.]
At the heart of the post is Lauren's "theory of parenting":
Children: Little people making bad decisions.

Adults: Helping little people make less bad decisions.

Parents: Obligated to help, to the best of their ability, their little people make good decisions the best they can.
One missing piece to such a theory, in my opinion, is that parents are obliged to not only help their children make good decisions, but, when necessary, prevent them from making bad decisions. And I do find it interesting, given the relativism that permeates the writings of Lauren and her fellow Feministe bloggers, that she admits there is such a thing as a "bad decision."

What do you think of Lauren's theory? I'd be especially interested in hearing from parents.

[Note: Please do not take this as an invitation to insult Lauren, who will no doubt be reading these comments. I had worried that commenters who have reason to disagree with Lauren on other topics might insult her — my apologies for voicing such a fear, as so far it looks like I was mistaken. Regardless of disagreements on when motherhood begins, I sincerely appreciate her taking a stand against those who slander parents.]


12:03 AM  |

Friday, August 11, 2006

Billy the Kidder

Last night, I discovered that I have an unlikely new pop-cultural hero: Billy Bob Thornton.

Until then, everything I had read about the five-times-divorced actor's personal life made him sound creepy. In contrast, his comments to Andrew Goldman in the latest issue of Elle reveal him to be surprisingly thoughtful and even downright charming. It's clear, however, that I'm not his type — which, all things considered, is no doubt for the best. A few highlights from Goldman's interview:

ELLE: Is there any man you've been around who puts your own power with women to shame?

BILLY BOB THORNTON: My buddy Jim Varney, God rest his soul, who played Ernest. He'd say things that would get most of us slapped, but women thought he was so adorable and funny, they didn't care.

ELLE: ... What thing could you find in a woman's home that would convince you that you weren't compatible?

BBT: A copy of "Star Wars."

ELLE: What does that really say about somebody?

BBT: That they contribute to the ruination of motion pictures by supporting things that rely on toys and gimmicks. You know, it's like finding a drawer full of vibrators.

ELLE: ... Ever have any unlikely crushes?

BBT: Ruth Buzzi.

ELLE: ... If for the night you could inhabit the body of any man, living or dead, to pick up women, who would it be?

BBT: Probably one of those cats in the Revolution, like Benjamin Franklin or Thomas Jefferson.

ELLE: Ben Franklin had a reputation as an amazing swordsman.

BBT: Exactly. There you go.

ELLE: But so do you. Have you ever tried to compute your numbers? Are you in Wilt Chamberlain territory?

BBT: I'm not up there with Wilt. But I've never tried to do it. It makes it just seem like a sport, and I'm not like that, and these days I try not to be that reflective. Sometimes it's depressing, thinking about those times in your life when bad things happened.

ELLE: Are there any physical peculiarities you can't tolerate in a woman?

BBT: Really long toes, where they look like claws, you know what I mean? It looks like they have hands instead of feet.

ELLE: My God! I never knew hand-footed women existed.

BBT: Oh, they're out there.


12:01 AM  |

Thursday, August 10, 2006

New Portrait

Many, many thanks to Matthew Alderman of Shrine of the Holy Whapping, a recent graduate of Notre Dame's architectural program, who has given me the stunning portrait at left for The Dawn Patrol. Click on the image for a larger version.

I'm holding Hans Memling's "Allegory of Chastity." The "V+v=S" is Saint Maximilian Kolbe's formula for sainthood: Voluntas (God's will) plus voluntas (my will) equals Sanctitas (sanctity).

Matthew wrote me an e-mail shedding light on other symbolism in the portrait:

The device of the Shin added to the Tetragrammaton, which works out roughly to the same sound as "Yehoshua" if perhaps the spelling is different, appears in a digression in Oedipus Aegypticus, an Egyptological work published between 1652-1654 by the polymath scholar Fr. Athanasius Kircher, SJ, where he discusses the Hebrew language and its relation to Egyptian history.

Kircher is a bit of a hero of mine (I have recently christened my apartment the "Kircherianum" after his museum in Rome), even if he was horrible at translating hieroglyphics. Most of his conclusions are wholly fanciful, but he does include an astonishing symbolic insignia which contains a Christianization of the concept of the 72 names of God, which I think originates within certain Jewish mystical schools of thought. Kircher universalizes them by changing them to the name of God in 72 different languages spread across the world. These names radiate like rays from a central disk in which is written IHS (the Greek initials of Our Lord's name) with the Y-H-S-V-H written across the crossbar of the H. He is in this instance attempting to formulate an orthodox Christian response to the cabalistic beliefs of certain esoteric groups within Judaism if not within its mainstream. I think he also may have got the inscription from somewhere else, but I forget.

He was also a very devout man for whom science revealed God's wonders, and who spent the end of his life building a private shrine to the Mother of God, an inveterate prankster who flew dragon-shaped kites inscribed "FEAR THE WRATH OF GOD" over the Jesuit college to frighten the Dominicans next door, the inventor of megaphones, water-organs and other gadgets, not to mention being the author of speculations about space flight and life on other planets, books on geology, magnetism, China, Etruscan archaeology, universal languages, and just about everything else. He also got a lot of things wrong, but even his errors are fascinating.

The word at the bottom of the Memling is "chastity" in Greek, but written in a typeface inspired by Gothic lettering.
Matthew is just brilliant. Visit Shrine of the Holy Whapping for more of his artistry and observations.


12:24 AM  |

Wednesday, August 9, 2006

The Needle and the Damage Done

Of the comments on yesterday's post "Their Bodies, Their Selves" (currently numbering 86), several take issue with my conclusion: "I believe the devil is always happy when people deface their bodies, because they are defacing the image of God." I'd like to address a few of them, and related issues, here:

  • One commenter notes that "Satan in the Divine Comedy is miserable." While Dante isn't canonical, I agree that the devil is never truly joyous. Rather, he gloats. So, "happy" is indeed too strong a word.

  • Committing any action that causes the devil to gloat is not, in and of itself, reason to damn one to hell. That's why I thank God for His forgiveness; I need it every day. The fact that I express my personal beliefs on tattoos and other practices does not, cannot, mean that I condemn those who take part in such practices as more sinful than myself. I do not know anyone's else's heart.

    I think what's most sensitive about this issue is the fact that tattoos are visible, whereas other sins are not. It's true that I might see a tattoo on a woman and think that, at some point in her life, she did one bad thing to her body. She, on the other hand, could look at me and be unaware of thousands upon thousands of bad things that I've done to my mind, body, and spirit. Even so, that does not take away my right to share my perspective on a practice that I believe is morally harmful.

    What most concerns me about tattooing is that it is the kind of sin against one's own body that is addictive, so that it can cause one to further separate oneself from the capital-B Body over time. (A commenter who was favorable about tattoos noted their addictive quality, which I've witnessed in those who have received such marks.)

    The existence of God's forgiveness can't help one who is so separated from God that he or she does not wish to be forgiven. That, in my view, is the greatest danger to oneself posed by habitual sin, which includes the mutilation of the body — and yes, I would say, addiction to plastic surgery or the acquisition of multiple piercings. The actions do not necessarily cause significant moral damage in and of themselves (I say this as one who has pierced ears and does not particularly wish to let the holes fill in), but they may lead to the continued desire to deface oneself.

  • And why is self-mutilation, which includes tattoos and piercings, sinful? Because man was made in God's image — which is why God commanded us not to kill (Genesis 9:6). That this teaching is to be taken literally has been stated by Catholic, Protestant, and Jewish theologians over the centuries. Here are two examples, first from the Vatican's International Theological Commission wrote in "Communion and Stewardship:
    Human Persons Created in the Image of God,"
    which was approved for publication by the commission's president, Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger:
    29. The central dogmas of the Christian faith imply that the body is an intrinsic part of the human person and thus participates in his being created in the image of God. The Christian doctrine of creation utterly excludes a metaphysical or cosmic dualism since it teaches that everything in the universe, spiritual and material, was created by God and thus stems from the perfect Good. Within the framework of the doctrine of the incarnation, the body also appears as an intrinsic part of the person. The Gospel of John affirms that "the Word became flesh (sarx)," in order to stress, against Docetism, that Jesus had a real physical body and not a phantom-body. Furthermore, Jesus redeems us through every act he performs in his body. His Body which is given up for us and His Blood which is poured out for us mean the gift of his Person for our salvation. Christ's work of redemption is carried on in the Church, his mystical body, and is made visible and tangible through the sacraments. The effects of the sacraments, though in themselves primarily spiritual, are accomplished by means of perceptible material signs, which can only be received in and through the body. This shows that not only man's mind but also his body is redeemed. The body becomes a temple of the Holy Spirit. Finally, that the body belongs essentially to the human person is inherent to the doctrine of the resurrection of the body at the end of time, which implies that man exists in eternity as a complete physical and spiritual person.
    And John Calvin, from "The Sixth Commandment: Thou Shalt Not Kill":
    40. Scripture notes a twofold equity on which this commandment is founded. Man is both the image of God and our flesh. Wherefore, if we would not violate the image of God, we must hold the person of man sacred—if we would not divest ourselves of humanity we must cherish our own flesh. The practical inference to be drawn from the redemption and gift of Christ will be elsewhere considered. The Lord has been pleased to direct our attention to these two natural considerations as inducements to watch over our neighbour's preservation—viz. to revere the divine image impressed upon him, and embrace our own flesh. To be clear of the crime of murder, it is not enough to refrain from shedding man's blood. If in act you perpetrate, if in endeavour you plot, if in wish and design you conceive what is adverse to another's safety, you have the guilt of murder. On the other hand, if you do not according to your means and opportunity study to defend his safety, by that inhumanity you violate the law. But if the safety of the body is so carefully provided for, we may hence infer how much care and exertion is due to the safety of the soul, which is of immeasurably higher value in the sight of God.


11:42 PM  |

Their Bodies, Their Selves

When my friend Al suddenly lost his wife — she choked to death — one of the ways he handled his grief was by getting tattoos. Bit by bit, his arms became covered with crude images freighted with superstition, representing his feelings of being cursed — disparate objects like a goat, a yin/yang symbol, and a pair of dice.

I thought of him today when I saw a woman on the street whose left arm was taken up with odd, kitchsy imagery that could have been taken from Keane paintings — big-eyed little girls and cute animals.

The sight of the woman reminded me that often when I see images of young women at pro-abortion demonstration, they boast numerous tattoos. I wondered: Do they have tattoos simply because liberal women are more likely to have them, or does their desire to mark up their bodies represent, as with my friend Al, a desire to punish themselves and in some way compensate for their loss?

A Web search turns up a brief blog post on the subject by an abortion-rights supporter, featuring a photograph of an arm tattoo depicting the angel Gabriel giving the Virgin Mary a coat-hanger abortion. While the tattoo recipient's face is not shown, the arm appears to be that of a woman. What could possibly motivate a woman to imprint such an image permanently upon her body is beyond my understanding. I only know that she must need prayers.

After Abortion notes a story of a woman who had the image of a fetus-as-angel tattooed on her arm after she had an abortion.

Something tells me that there's a connection between the increase in abortions after Roe vs. Wade and the increase in tattoos. In any case, I believe the devil is always happy when people deface their bodies, because they are defacing the image of God.


1:20 AM  |

Bringing Hope to Africa
A Guest Bleg by John C.A. Bambenek

Tumaini means "hope" in Swahili, the national language of Tanzania.
Hope is what we aim to provide to the many children in Tanzania who
have lost their parents due to the AIDS epidemic. We know many have
heard of the devastation brought about by the AIDS epidemic in Africa,
and we are deeply concerned about the future of Africa's children.

Our mission is to provide education for these children while meeting
their basic material and medical needs. The boarding schools Tumaini
supports house students who are either orphans or their parents send
them to the school because their villages are too impoverished to
provide a good education.

We want to share with you the great needs of these children for your
prayer and support. By helping them secure a basic education, these
children will have the opportunity to work towards self-fulfillment
and empowerment.

The children at the schools are in need of everything from backpacks
and school supplies to running water so that they can take showers.
Our method of aid thus far has involved shipping large containers
overseas packed with school supplies, medical supplies, furniture,
bicycles and even a car. The reason for shipping the items rather
than sending money is that it is far more expensive to purchase these
same items in Tanzania than it is in the United States. The containers
are also useful shelters and storage that can be kept to help meet
their needs.

Tumaini hopes to send another container shipment in September, and so
far we have had many generous contributors, both individual and
corporate, donate large amounts of material goods. Carle Hospital in
Champaign, Illinois, for example, has donated over 150 computers so
far. We are now in most need of monetary funds to ship these items
and to continue sending any and all future items. Our current
fundraising goal is $10,000. Would you please prayerfully consider a
tax-deductible donation of $100, $50, or even $20? Please send checks
to the Tumaini Foundation, 715 Erin Drive, Champaign, IL 61822 or
visit our website at TheTumainiFoundation.org.
Thank you and God bless you.

John C.A. Bambenek blogs at Part-Time Pundit.


1:06 AM  |

Tuesday, August 8, 2006

Choosing Life, Consistently
A Guest Post by the Raving Atheist

Time to go pro-life all the way: for reasons related to my opposition to abortion, I am adopting the "consistent ethic of life" and renouncing my support for capital punishment. I believe that the mere potential for good inherent in all human life is a sufficient basis for abolishing the death penalty. Whether it is expressed in religious, secular or philosophical terms, there is a something at the core of even the worst of us worthy of respect and protection.

The death penalty debate, unlike the abortion one, is rarely framed in purely religious terms. This is not to say that religious arguments, and passionate ones, are not sometimes raised by both sides of the controversy. What I mean is that advocating for one side is generally not viewed as "imposing religion" upon society. There is no slogan equivalent to "keep your rosaries off my ovaries" in the capital punishment arena. No one says "keep your Mass off my cyanide gas." When a legislature enacts or repeals a death penalty bill, objections based upon church/state separation generally do not arise. [They also tend to fade in discussions of late-term abortion or infanticide].

But reading Jill of Feministe's call to de-emphasize the problem of executing the innocent in favor of rejecting capital punishment on its face, I was struck by the parallels to my own allegedly "magical" anti-abortion position. The abolitionist -- one who puts aside questions of innocence, racism, age or retardation and the like in favor of a complete ban -- is arguing for nothing but life for life's sake. Such an argument against execution, it seems, could easily be easily be dismissed as "DNA magic," as a fetishistic obsession with the bare resemblance of the criminal's genetic structure to our own, or as an embrace of "ensoulment." Why not simply declare that the condemned, like the fetus, is "subhuman" or a mere "parasite"? Why protest against the perfectly "legal medical procedure" of lethal injection?

It is of no use to distinguish the prisoner by asserting that his clump of cells has developed to the point where he is a "real" human being with a consciousness. The consciousness only counts against the argument. Having metastasized into something evil, the creature's possession of a brain only aggravates the danger posed. Nor do arguments concerning the condemned's capacity for pain carry much weight. Any death can be brought about painlessly and instantaneously, with the subject experiencing no more discomfort than a blastocyte. It is magical thinking to say otherwise -- factually and scientifically false. And if the question "how would like it if your mother had aborted you?" is for some reason nonsense, then so is the question "how would you like it if the state had executed you?" In either case, you would be in no position to complain today.

These specious objections aside, the abolitionist position can rest only upon a respect for the core human identity and the potentiality for goodness it entails. It is a potentiality that may, unlike the fetus, take far longer than nine months to realize. Rehabilitation can be a long and expensive process. And it must be recognized that it is, in fact, only a potentiality, not an actuality.

But I believe that that is enough. Vengeance solves nothing, resurrects no one, and I seriously doubt that those inclined to kill are deterred (or necessarily even aware) of the prospect of the ultimate penalty. Every person can eventually serve to some productive use, even if incarcerated. I am persuaded by the reasoning of Pope John Paul II in Evangelium vitae that:

[We] ought not go to the extreme of executing the offender except in cases of absolute necessity: in other words, when it would not be possible otherwise to defend society. Today however, as a result of steady improvements in the organization of the penal system, such cases are very rare, if not practically non-existent.

In any event, the principle set forth in the new Catechism of the Catholic Church remains valid: "If bloodless means are sufficient to defend human lives against an aggressor and to protect public order and the safety of persons, public authority must limit itself to such means, because they better correspond to the concrete conditions of the common good and are more in conformity to the dignity of the human person.
George H. Smith, author of the seminal work "Atheism: The Case Against God" comes to a similar conclusion with respect to capital punishment. He contends that the right to life is "inalienable" and that the death penalty is impermissible even in cases "where reasonable doubt is impossible and where the crimes have been especially heinous" [“A Killer’s Right to Life,” Liberty 10, no. 2 (November 1996): 46]. I concur that whether argued as a question of mere humanity or mere Christianity, we are better off with less killing than more.

Cross-posted at The Raving Atheist.


9:49 AM  |

Brush to Judgment

Back from San Francisco, jet lagged, and recovering from seeing works like this at the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art.

What kind of mind does it take to see such a thing as worthy of a frame — let alone a $12.50 admission price?

"Savages and modern artists are alike strangely driven to create something uglier than themselves. but the artists find it harder." — G.K. Chesterton


1:15 AM